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Summer
2002
What Television Chases Out of Life
Right now in America, the vast majority of all families have two or
more television sets, and 33 percent of the two- to seven-year-olds have a
television set in their bedrooms. Moreover, the time invested in TV has
been increasing over the decades. While 39 percent of nine-year-olds
watched three to five hours of television daily in 1982, by 1999, 47
percent watched that much. Almost 60 percent of all families watch
television during meals, and not necessarily at the same TV set. When do
they talk about what they did that day? When do they make plans, exchange
views, share jokes, tell about their triumphs or little disasters? When do
they get to be a real family?
-Editor
By Marie Winn
Unlike most discussions of television’s negative impact, this one does
not deal with the usual suspects--violence or sex or relentless commercials.
Instead, it focuses on television watching regardless of program content.
Obviously kids learn from what they see on the screen. Some of what they
learn is useful, some washes over them, and some of it has a negative
impact.
But given the amount of time most children spend watching television, the
question of quality pales in importance compared to questions about the
experience itself and the time devoted to it--whether that is helpful or
harmful. Sociologist Urie Bronfenbrenner dramatically posed this question by
considering what else could be done during the hours spent viewing TV:
Like the sorcerer of old, the television set casts its magic spell,
freezing speech and action, turning the living into silent statues for as
long as the enchantment lasts. The primary danger of the television screen
lies...in the behavior it prevents: the talks, the games, the family
festivities, and the arguments through which much of the child’s learning
takes place and through which his character is formed. Turning on the
television set can turn off the process that transforms children into
people.
One of the clearest demonstrations of this "displacement factor," as it
has been called, is a unique study titled, "The Impact of Television: A
Natural Experiment in Three Communities." It documents the effects of
television’s arrival on a small Canadian town, Notel, that had been without
television reception (due to geographic factors) for a decade into the
television era. University researchers, in advance of television’s arrival,
studied the television-free children and families, comparing them with the
populations of two demographically similar towns--one that had had only one
TV channel available during the previous decade and another that had had
many channels.
The findings were revealing. Before television, the Notel children tested
significantly higher than the kids in the other towns on various skills like
creativity and reading comprehension. When retested a year after
television’s introduction, the Notel children’s scores had gone down to the
level of the kids in the other towns. The researchers, however, did not
attribute the declines to the act of watching television. Rather, they
explained that watching television displaced other more valuable
experiences. Can one conclude, for example, that there is something about
the act of watching television that makes kids less creative? Perhaps
pursuing hobbies, going camping, or joining clubs broadens their base of
experience in a way that makes them more creative. Similarly, in explaining
the decline in reading comprehension, the researchers wrote, "We suspect
that a displacement process is involved....The absence of reading practice
is, in our view, more important than television per se."
Similarly, in 1997, a large-scale study conducted in the Netherlands
concluded that television viewing had a negative impact on reading
comprehension, largely as a result of television’s displacement of reading
as a leisure-time activity.
Evidence that the more television children view, regardless of program
content, the worse they do in school, has been accumulating since research
on television’s impact on children began. Twenty years ago in a summary of
television research organized by the National Institute of Mental Health,
all but one of the numerous studies cited in the section on educational
achievement showed a negative relationship between the amount of television
viewing and school achievement.
In addition, a National Assessment of Educational Progress (NAEP) report
assessing long-term trends in school achievement noted a strong negative
relationship between time spent watching television and students’ scores on
the NAEP mathematics test. In all three age groups tested, the heaviest
watchers scored lower than their peers who watched less. The content of
programs watched was not a factor in this negative relationship.
What Television Chases Out of Family Life
A number of studies done when television was a relatively new medium
demonstrated that television interfered with family activities and
relationships. One survey showed that 78 percent of the respondents
indicated no conversation taking place during viewing, except at specified
times such as commercials. The study noted that, "The nature of the family
social life during a program could be described as ‘parallel’ rather than
‘interactive,’ and the set does seem to dominate family life when it is on."
Thirty-six percent of the respondents in another study indicated that
television viewing was the only family activity participated in during the
week.
Childhood Memories of the Ordinary Day
By its domination of the time families spend together, TV eliminates
the very activities that distinguish one family from another and make
childhood memorable--its rituals, games, recurrent jokes, familiar songs.
A few decades ago, a parent described her family’s evening this way:
In principle, we have agreed on 2Z\x hours of TV a day--Sesame
Street, Electric Company (with dinner gobbled up between), and two
half-hour shows between 7 p.m. and 8:30 p.m., which enables the
grown-ups to eat in peace and prevents the two boys from destroying one
another. Their pre-bedtime choice is dreadful because, as Josh recently
admitted, "There’s nothing much on I really like."
Without conjuring up fantasies of bygone years with family games and
long, leisurely meals, the question arises: Isn’t there a better family
life available than this dismal, mechanized arrangement of children
watching television for however long is allowed them, evening after
evening?
Of course, families today still do things together at times--go camping
in the summer, go to the zoo on a Sunday afternoon. But their ordinary
daily life together is diminished: those hours of sitting around at the
dinner table, the little games invented by children on the spur of the
moment, the scribbling, the chatting, and even the quarreling--all the
things that form the fabric of a family, that define a childhood.
Strategies that Served Parents and Children
In the pre-television era, necessity often impelled parents to resort
to certain parent-directed strategies that bought them some respite from
childcare. These included giving firm direction to their children instead
of offering choices, observing their children in order to steer them into
self-directed play, and requiring nap time for older children.
- Firmness: Parents were firmer before the television era, not because
they believed this was a better way to raise kids, but simply because
firmness was necessary for parents’ survival. The child-rearing style so
prevalent today--characterized by questions parents steadily ask their
small children, such as, "Do you want to go shopping with Daddy?"--was
unthinkable then. Four-year-old Nancy had to go shopping with Daddy so
Mom could nurse the baby or help Buddy with his homework, and she was
simply told in a nice firm voice that that’s what was about to happen.
Not knowing that she had a say in such affairs, the small child was more
likely to comply than kids are today.
- Observation:
Before television, training children to play alone for periods of time
was a vital part of parenthood. But accomplishing this goal was never a
simple matter. Observing children’s changing development was the pathway
to success in getting children to entertain themselves successfully and
reliably. A mother, for instance, might take pains to discover if her
three-year-old was capable of learning to cut with a pair of blunted
scissors. If this activity amused the child, it would be worth the
mother’s while to work on it a bit--to help the child learn how to cut
properly and to provide a supply of colored papers or an old magazine, a
jar of paste, perhaps--because once the skill was acquired, her reward
would be a self-entertaining child.
- The Nap: The
most dependable survival aid for parents of the past was the nap. They
saved up their telephone calls, their letter writing, reading, or
sustained thinking for that interval of the day when an eye or an ear
didn’t have to be cocked in the direction of a small child. When at age
two or three the child may have stopped physically needing the nap, the
parents hadn’t stopped needing it--far from it. Through firmness, based
on a certain desperation as well as a strong sense that the period of
quiet rest was still good for the child, parents succeeded in gradually
turning the sleep nap into a quiet-play nap, during which time children
were required to remain in their room, playing or listening to music, or
dreaming, or puttering about quietly. Thus, the nap period begins to
serve a new function: it provides children with their first regular
opportunity to experience free time.
Free Time and Resourcefulness
Not so long ago, children were regularly faced with periods of time
that they were required to deal with on their own. Today, not merely are
children’s lives packed with more meetings, lessons, and other structured
activities than ever before, but all the possible chunks of empty time
cropping up between these activities are filled in with the mortar of
television. That curiously unvalued commodity called free time has been
eliminated almost entirely from children’s lives.
Whether children are so used to immediate gratification via the
television set that their abilities have atrophied, or whether a simple
lack of experience with free time has left them with undeveloped
abilities, these days they seem to have greater difficulty dealing with
free time than children of past eras did. Today’s children seem less
likely to enlarge their interests by trying something new: inventing
games, playing make-believe, reading, or writing to pen pals--activities
that grow on a child and foster growth.
Family Rituals
Family ritual is defined by sociologists as "that part of family life
that the family likes about itself, is proud of, and wants formally to
continue." Mealtime rituals, going-to-bed rituals, holiday rituals--how
many of these have survived the inroads of the television set? A young
woman who grew up near Chicago reminisces about her childhood and gives an
idea of the effects of television upon family rituals:
As a child I had millions of relatives around--my parents both come
from relatively large families. My father had nine brothers and sisters.
And so every holiday there was this great swoop-down of aunts, uncles,
and millions of cousins. I just remember how wonderful it used to be.
The cousins would come and everyone would play and, ultimately, after
dinner all the women would be in the front of the house, drinking coffee
and talking, all the men would be in the back of the house, drinking and
smoking, and all the kids would be all over the place, playing hide and
seek. Christmastime was particularly nice because everyone always
brought all their toys and games. Our house had a couple of rooms with
go-through closets, so there were always kids running in a great circle
route. I remember it was just wonderful.
And then one year I remember becoming suddenly aware of how different
everything had become. The kids were no longer playing Monopoly or Clue
or the other games we used to play together. It was because we had a
television set, which had been turned on for a football game. All the
socializing that had gone on previously had ended. Now everyone was
sitting in front of the television set, on a holiday, at a family party!
I remember being stunned by how awful that was. Somehow the television
had become more attractive.
Sickness As a Special Event
The diminishing cohort of adults who grew up before television has
strong memories of childhood illnesses. A mother thinks back:
My mother worked when I was a child, but when I was sick she stayed
home for at least a few days. So I remember those times very well. I
remember the endless card games and cutting out pictures from magazines
with her. I remember lying in bed and calling her to come and bring me
this or that, again and again and again. And I remember how wonderful it
felt that she always came! I suppose I ran her ragged, but to this day,
that’s a very important memory for me.
Parents in those bygone days swallowed their impatience and suspended
their weariness when the kids were sick. It wasn’t that they were better
parents than parents are today--it was because they had no alternative.
Nowadays, what makes sickness special for children is mainly that they
are allowed to watch more television than ever. A mother who normally
limits her children’s television viewing says: "When the children are
sick, I’m likely to let them watch all they want. Otherwise, I’d have to
read to them all day." For today’s children whose opportunities for shared
experiences with their busy parents are already so limited, those stories
not read, those card games not played, those quiet times not spent
together are a particular loss.
Gaining Control
There’s evidence that families with rules about TV viewing are better off
than families without rules. In a recent study of children’s media use, the
researchers assessed the personal contentedness and social adjustment of a
large group of children, then related the results to their media use. It
turned out that children from families with rules about TV viewing scored
higher (that is, were happier and better adjusted) than children in families
without such rules. (The study also noted that children in families with
rules were more likely to spend more time reading.) But even without rules,
there are natural ways that parents can limit television.
Parental Control
Setting up and maintaining new family rules about television is more
easily said than done. Here are some rules to consider. (Note that new
rules are easier to establish after a period of time spent without TV,
either a vacation or after a deliberate TV turn-off week.)
1. No TV on school days. That’s it. No counting hours, no checking
listings for one or two permissible programs. No bargaining and haggling.
Eliminating television on school days effectively eliminates television as
a competitor for other, more fulfilling activities (lively family meals,
conversations, games, reading aloud, and, of course, studying and doing
homework) during a good chunk of the week.
2. No TV at dinnertime or bedtime. This is the rule that virtually
every expert agrees on. With the exception of a brief annual vacation,
dinnertime is often the only regular time a family can spend together.
Whatever cohesiveness and family spirit is to exist, the evening meal is
where it is consolidated. As for bedtime, there is nothing that can
replace the bedtime story as a uniquely valuable experience in every
child’s life.
3. A one-hour-a-day time limit. Some families set a strict daily time
limit of no more than one hour of viewing a day. This may work to "detelevisionize"
family life considerably, but the competition between television and other
activities continues. Children can spend two or more hours simply marking
time until their permitted program comes on the air.
4. Fewer or no "regular" programs. A rule limiting or eliminating the
watching of regular weekly series programs will usually reduce the
quantity of TV watching considerably. (Many kids have numerous series
programs they watch regularly.) It also helps discourage families from
planning their lives around the TV schedule.
Natural Limits
Although rules may be necessary, there are also ways to limit TV
viewing naturally. The following strategies serve to diminish TV’s
negative impact on family life:
1. The Set Itself. The condition of the set itself can
keep TV watching hours down. An eight-year-old boy who watches little
television says, "I don’t like watching television much because we have a
terrible television set. It keeps messing up and either the sound is bad
or the picture or both. Worst of all, we sometimes get a double picture."
2. Location of the Set. In deciding where to locate the
television set, consider the following parent’s testimony:
We keep our set in the basement to have it out of the way. It’s there
because we don’t like to talk over the TV, as happens at our friends’
houses, or to have other people distracted by it and lose the thread of
the conversation. Also, in the basement there’s less temptation to just
flick it on when you enter the house. You have to make a special trip
down there to watch something.
Most important of all, there should not be a TV in the children’s
room. In February 2001, the American Academy of Pediatrics revised its
(already strong) policy statement about parents’ use of television. It
advised pediatricians to tell parents: "Remove television sets from
children’s bedrooms."
3. Number of Sets. The number of sets a family possesses
makes a considerable difference in how well parents can control their
children’s viewing. In a study of the factors affecting parental
television control, researchers observed that the number of television
sets in a home was "the crucial family variable," predicting whether
parents were successful in controlling television.
4. A Rich Social Life. A rich social life may also serve
as a natural limit to children’s television viewing. A psychiatrist
explains that:
The television problem is related to small families. Amusing small
kids would be perfectly easy if you had four or five kids of various
ages around at all times to amuse each other. The whole idea of a mother
entertaining a small child is kind of crazy anyway. It never happened
prior to 1900.
A family with two children eight and ten years of age find that the TV
is infrequently used in spite of a permissive attitude towards it. The
mother reports:
We live on the way to Lucy’s school and she almost always brings
girls home with her, sometimes ten at a time! Jeremy usually brings home
a couple of kids since his school is also nearby. But he has a friend
who lives upstairs, an only child, and that child watches TV a great
deal. Maybe there’s a connection.
Outside Support
Parents respond with gratitude and relief when help is offered by
powerful outside institutions. Support from local schools as well as
national organizations can bolster parents’ efforts:
1. School support. A few years ago, when a well-known
nursery school in New York City sent a letter to its entire parent body
advising them to limit their children’s viewing time to a maximum of one
hour a day, the step was greeted with unusual enthusiasm. An article in
the New York Times quoted one mother as saying, "That letter gave me the
final push into curtailing television." Another mother described her
three-year-old son’s campaign to watch Planet of the Apes and other
popular cartoons this way, "I was under heavy pressure, so when the letter
arrived, I was relieved to tell him the school didn’t want him to watch."
2. The TV-Turnoff Network. The TV-Turnoff Network held its
first national TV Turnoff during the last week of April 1995, and has
continued to organize a similar event every year since. So far, more than
24 million people have participated, at least partially, in the national
Turnoff, with 6 million signing on in 2000 alone. Today, the TV-Turnoff
Network leads an alliance that counts among its supporters the American
Academy of Pediatricians, the Girl Scouts of America, and the Surgeon
General of the United States.
To learn more about the TV-Turnoff Network, visit
www.tvturnoff.org. Let us know if
your school takes steps to limit TV watching by writing to American
Educator, 555 New Jersey Ave. N.W., Washington, DC 20001 or via e-mail at
amered@aft.org.
Marie Winn has written for many newspapers and magazines, including the
Wall Street Journal and the New York Times. She has written 13 books
including Children Without Childhood and Red-Tails in Love: A Wildlife Drama
in Central Park. Excerpts adapted from The Plug-In Drug, Revised and Updated
by Marie Winn, © 1977, 1985, 2002 by Marie Winn Miller. Used by permission
of Viking Penguin, a division of Penguin Putnam Inc.
See related story: What TV Chases Out of
the Classroom
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